for Aqila, my favourite person on earth

Happy
Anniversary, baby.

We really took the whole “for better or worse” thing and turned it into “for laughter, chaos, healing, snacks, soft nights, and very committed 4:20 energy.” Honestly? That’s iconic.

Thank you for being my peace, my partner, my favourite bad influence, and the one person I’d still choose even if the world got loud and weird. Especially then.

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still somehow out-cuting everyone else alive

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chemistry, chaos, comfort, and “babe listen to this idea”

∞ us

because ordinary days with you already feel like the plan

20 reasons

Why I’d still pick you every single time

A 4/20-friendly love list. No corporate bullshit. Just facts.

You make home feel like a person

Not a place. A person. And it’s you.

You’re stupidly beautiful

Respectfully. Rudely. Consistently.

You get my weird

Not just tolerate it — you decorate it and make it funnier.

You bring calm without becoming boring

That’s a rare superpower, babe.

You’re soft and strong at the same time

Comfort and backbone. Deadly combo.

You still make me look twice

Even when we’re just doing nothing in the house.

You laugh with your whole face

And somehow the room gets lighter immediately.

You make ordinary days worth remembering

Random drives, random meals, random nonsense — all better with you.

You love hard

Not loudly for show — deeply, honestly, and for real.

You are the safe place

The exhale after the day. The reset button. The peace.

You look gorgeous in white

That wedding photo? Yeah. Museum-level evidence.

You let love stay playful

Marriage with you doesn’t feel heavy. It feels alive.

You keep me honest

In the annoying-but-correct way that actually matters.

You’re my favourite conversation

Deep talk, dumb talk, high talk — all elite.

You’re beautiful when you’re happy

And beautiful when you’re sleepy. And beautiful when you’re annoyed. This is a problem.

You make love feel easy to return to

No ego games. No performance. Just us finding each other again and again.

You’re the memory I revisit on purpose

The kind that still feels warm every time.

You’re my favourite ritual

Coffee, cuddles, late-night nonsense, smoke sessions — all of it.

You make me want to be gentler

Better. Softer. More present. More grateful.

Because it’s you

That’s it. That’s the whole answer. It has always been you.

updated vows

“I still want the life where we keep choosing each other — on the easy days, on the messy days, on the days we’re tired, and on the nights we’re giggling over absolutely nothing.”

I don’t need perfection from us. I just need the real thing. And with you, the real thing is already beautiful as hell.

more patience more laughing in the kitchen more little dates more us vs the world

secret button

I made you something. And also… a plan.

Click the button when you’re ready. No spoilers before that.

Happy Anniversary, sayang.

Tomorrow’s plan is simple: comfy clothes, no stress, just us. You bring that face I’m obsessed with. I’ll handle the rest.

• one nice little surprise
• one proper soft moment
• one very us kind of evening

Thank you for building a life with me that still feels warm, funny, and worth celebrating.