Happy Anniversary, Aqila.

Five years, and I would still choose you.

We turned "for better or worse" into "for laughter, smoke sessions, and 3AM ideas that somehow always work." You're still the best decision I ever made.

Aqila & Rosli — wedding day
Still the most us photo ever taken
Scroll down, sayang
a letter for you
You're not just my wife — you're my peace, my favourite chaos, the person I want to annoy for the rest of my life, and somehow also the reason I believe in something as wild as forever.
— Rosli, on 04/20, as always
renewed promises
01

I'll keep choosing you

On the easy mornings and the messy ones. Every single day.

02

I'll keep making you laugh

Even when the joke is just okay. You'll laugh anyway, because you're kind like that.

03

I'll stay soft for you

The world gets hard. But with you, I'll keep the gentleness alive.

04

I'll share my snacks

This is actually the biggest one. You know what it costs me.

05

I'll keep growing with you

Not just beside you. With you. Different thing. Better thing.

06

I'll keep the vibes at 420

Always. It's literally our day. Our number. Our energy.

how we got here
Day One

We met, and it was over

The kind of instant where your brain just goes "yeah, that one" and never changes its mind.

The In-Between

A million little moments that added up

Late-night talks, dumb jokes, smoke sessions, road trips, comfortable silence. The real stuff.

Wedding Day

We did it our way

Wedding clothes, bong on the stairs, zero apologies. If that's not a manifesto, what is?

Right Now

Still choosing each other

Still laughing at the same dumb things. Still the best team I've ever been part of.

Forever

Whatever comes next, it's us

I don't know the details, but I know who's standing next to me. And that's enough.

something for you

One more thing, baby.

Press the button when you're ready. No pressure. Okay, a little pressure.

Happy Anniversary, sayang.

Here's what I know: every year with you just gets warmer, funnier, and more "us." You make ordinary feel like something worth holding onto.

Today's plan:

  • Comfy clothes only — no exceptions
  • One proper surprise, handled entirely by me
  • One soft moment we didn't plan but will remember
  • One very us kind of evening

Thank you for being the kind of person who makes me want to build things like this. I love you. Still. Always. Especially on 04/20.